Monday, October 5, 2009

Freaking Idiots

How often to I truly feel hatred toward stupid people?

Well not very often, because I try to avoid stupid people. But there was an instance that slipped through my normal defenses. So today, I'd like to record an instance of stupidity, stupidity of self and of others.

At the beginning of this term, I was taking two stats courses. In short, I got sick of it and decided to try to appeal my business stats to fulfill the University requirement that my other stats class was meant for. But I have grants and scholarships and I've taken out a loan for school, right? Say right, because it's true. So before I began the appealing process, I asked the financial aid office if dropping from 11 to 7 credits would affect the amount of money I had been awarded this semester. They said that since I was still between 6 and 12 credits, it wouldn't affect me at all. They assured me of this, because I asked several times in a couple of different ways. Because I get worried about things even if people tell me not to worry about them.
So I appealed, and I was able to drop my second stats course. This would me time and money, which was sorely SORELY needed to pay for rent, food, bills, and car insurance and registration. Also, I need to take the MAT (or the GRE) soon so that I can attend grad school in the Spring.

Oh, by the way, I've talked to someone on the Board of Those-Wielding-Power-to-Accept-or-Deny-Grad-Students, more commonly known as the BTWPADGS (Yes, I just made the name of that board up, but I talked to someone in charge of admitting grad students) and he said that I meet all of the requirements and that I just need to go through the motions, and score well enough on that test.

Anyway, I found out that i had a $200 balance on my account for USU. not as in they would refund me that money. balance as in I needed to pay that much. So I went to my financial advisor and said to her (not sure of exact words here, so i'll wing it), "so, uh, what the heck? i came in here an asked if dropping a class would affect me at all, and i was told that it WOULD NOT affect me at all. so what's up with me PAYING 200 dollars all of the sudden?"

pretty much she told me, (not sure of exact words here, so i'll wing it), "well, looks like someone didn't know what they were talking about, and there was pretty much one week that you could've dropped the class and screwed yourself over, and you picked that week to drop your class. I can't do anything for you."

She then proceeded to explain to me ALL of the reasons why this was impossible to get out of. So I went to the cashier's office and asked if i could set up a payment plan (because clearly I cannot afford a sudden 200 dollar balance. i am praying that i can afford my next rent payment in time). They tell me that setting up a payment plan wouldn't help me (and I verify that it would not help me, it would make me pay more and i'd still have to pay it all by the same date).
So pretty much i need to make an extra 200 bucks by the end of this month.

Say What? Are you reminding me that I was already trying to come up with money for rent and car insurance, that I really can't put that many hours into work if there's nothing to do for the next week and a half? Oh, right. Hmmm. I guess I forgot about that.

Can everyone just agree with me that some lady at the financial aid office is an idiot, and that I was stupid for trusting her even though I was trying to go to valid sources of information to make responsible decisions? Yeah, not trusting people based on their position anymore...
I wonder how much I can make by "donating" plasma. can i do that when i'm on birth control?
maybe i'll sell a kidney.

i just can't wait to see how i figure this one out. time for tithing blessings to come forth.

6 comments:

Karilyn said...

Brittany,

Being a student at the same time you are (not same school, but I have the same student loans and grants going on here):

Question #1: Did you get the name of the person(s) you spoke to originally before dropping the class? It sounds to me like you did enough confirming before doing so in order to keep this from affecting your financial aid status, and you get whammed upside the head anyway?

No. You should not have to pay for the stupidity of someone else while doing their job in their official capacity. It is their responsibility to know their job, not yours. You cannot be expected to know everyone's jobs, it is THEIR job for a REASON.


Question #2: Is this a scam for them to come up with extra money for their coffers, or what? (trusting I used to be, not so much anymore, however)

Suggestion here, and it is only a suggestion: I would (if it were me) go to talk with the manager/supervisor of the person(s) who gave you the advice -- and do you know what? I'd even (if it were me, and $200 is a lot of money at this point in time, 'chump change' category might come along in the future~) - I'd even take this to the President of the college you are enrolled in - they have nice offices for a reason, they have the ability (and should by all means)take care of SNAFUS like this. They DO at least, need to be aware of what is happening in their campus offices.

Question #3: What if this same person gave the same advice to someone else who had come in with the same question you had? It needs to be brought to Someone-In-Charge's attention... you would be doing a great service to another student down the road to keep them from having their pockets turned inside out and wrung out too.

Again, this is all dependent on your having the name(s) of the person who gave you this wrong information. Heck, I'd go talk to these people even if I just had their description and department, perhaps if you even know just which day you were there and which desk they were sitting in.

Always always always get the name - date and time is helpful too.

P.S. If I had $200, it would be winging it's way to you; would $45 help right now? I'll have another $50 by the end of the month which you may have, that way, you'll only have to come up with $100. (it's my cellphone bill money, I can live without my cellphone for a few more weeks if necessary)

Seriously. It's yours, say the word. And please don't argue with me and say something dumb like "you don't have to do that". I know I don't have to.

Next you'll say "I'll be fine/okay". See, do I know this family?

>hugs<

p.s. Sometimes "tithing blessings" come through other people, something I've learned a great deal of over the past little while. The Lord has not yet planted a money tree in anyone's backyard, as far as I can tell. Well, not mine, anyway. He has other ways, though. Please consider and let me help if I may. It's difficult to accept help, I know, but one of my favorite movies is "Pay It Forward"... you can take it as such if it'll help any.

Connie Babe said...

and if all else fails, ASK YOUR MOMMA!

i would have told you that she didn't know what she was talking about and to cover those credits with a no-brainer class.

because i learned the hard way kiddo...i still have some credits to make up before i can apply for anything.

and i'm sorry.

the only thing worse than a bonehead is: a bonehead who messes up your life.

Karilyn said...

"bonehead" barely begins to cover what is out there... but yeah. True.

Karilyn said...

P.S.

One more comment, then I'll shut my mouth. "Hmmmm...." you say? :D

Just wanted to comment on the "hate" remark. I know you are feeling a HUGE amount of frustration and intense dislike at all this; but just take into consideration the person you're dealing with just plain isn't as classy as you are, let alone the intelligence she's missed out on isn't up to your particular level, so feel sorry for the ol' bat.

Some things can be taught, others cannot.

Some things can come with age, but yet, not always.

Looks like you have it over that particular individual in all respects, my sweet niece, so just feel sorry for her, leave the hate for someone who truly deserves your emotion.

What good music is on to help with this? (some questions don't require answers, by the way, just thought. *grin*)

~K~

"marbo"??

Lady Winterhart said...

yeah, i'm not a big fan of financial aid. the first woman i talked to told me my one loan would cover the whole year. nope. then she didn't bother to mention when tuition went up. twice. i was marked as a part time student at 16 credits. THAT at least got fixed. good luck brittany.

yes, you can donate plasma while on birth control. you'll only get about $50 though.

Kathlene said...

Put me in for 50 just let me know where to send it
I don't eat out much so I can handle this one

 
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